1.  Marriage Record:

2.  Family Group Sheet by Betty Ann (Matthiesen) Cogliati, And her grandmother, Maude Irene (Thompson) Rose.

3.  1880 Census (indexed at FamilySearch.org; page image online at Ancestry.com, Image #5 of 26):  Springvale Twp., Charlevoix Co., MI, Roll T9-0576, p. 50A, PN 5, SD 2, ED 56, enumerated 7/8 Jun 1880, official enumeration date 1 Jun 1880 (extracted by Diana Gale Matthiesen):

1880:  for an explanation of the column headings, please see What the Numbers in the Federal Census Mean (missing columns contained no data).
1	2	3	4	5	6	8	9	10	13	24	25	26
51	51	Dunham L S	W	M	36			/	Farmer	OH	OH	OH
		______ Sarah	W	F	20	Wife		/	Keeping House	MI	NY	OH
		______ Clarrie E	W	F	1	Dau	/			MI	OH	MI

4.  1890 Census:  the 1890 Census Population Schedules were destroyed.

5.  1900 Census Index/Microfilm (online at Genealogy.com):  Spickardville Town, Franklin Twp., Grundy Co., MO, p. 16B, SD _, ED _, SH 16, enumerated 16 Jun 1900, official enumeration date 1 Jun 1900 (extracted by Diana Gale Matthiesen):

1900:  for an explanation of the column headings, please see What the Numbers in the Federal Census Mean (missing columns contained no data).

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15

19

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24

25

27

365

365

Spickard Mary A

Head

W

F

Feb 1829

91

WD

1

1

MO

KY

KY

Y

Y

Y

O

H

Denham Delilah

Dau

W

F

Aug 1847

52

WD

1

1

MO

OH

MO

Y

Y

Y

Denslow Leslie E

GSon

W

M

Apr 1885

15

S

MO

MO

MO

At School

6

Y

Y

Y

"    Rosa L

GDau

W

F

Oct 1886

13

S

MO

MO

MO

At School

6

Y

Y

Y

"    Hugh W

GSon

W

M

Nov 1890

9

S

MO

MO

MO

At School

6

Y

Y

Y

"    Stella L

GDau

W

F

Mar 1892

8

S

MO

MO

MO

At School

6

Y

Y

Y

Ludwick Samuel

Boarder

W

M

Jan 1825

76

WD

OH

VA

VA

Gardner

6

Y

Y

Y

Mary Ann (THOMPSON) ERVIN SPICKARD is Delilah's mother, and she had at least 13 children, not one.  Delilah's one child did not survive, unless she is refering to her stepdaughter, Clara.  The DENSLOWs are the orphans of Mary's daughter, Sarah Frances (SPICKARD) DENSLOW.

6.  1910 Census Index/Images (online at Genealogy.com, Image #24 of 36):  Spickardville City, Franklin Twp., Grundy Co., MO, Roll 783 (Book 1), p. 12B, SN 12B, SD 2, ED 48, enumerated 26 Apr 1910, official enumeration date 15 Apr 1910 (extracted by Diana Gale Matthiesen):

1910:  for an explanation of the column headings, please see What the Numbers in the Federal Census Mean (missing columns contained no data).

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28

23

23

Hutton Maggie

Head

F

W

44

Wd

3

3

MO

OH

MO

Eng

own Income

N

0

Y

Y

O

F

H

______ Ester

Dau

F

W

20

S

MO

IN

MO

Eng

None

N

0

Y

Y

N

______ Pearl

Dau

F

W

19

S

MO

IN

MO

Eng

None

N

0

Y

Y

Y

______ Myrtle

Dau

F

W

16

S

MO

IN

MO

Eng

None

Y

Y

Y

Spickard Mary

Mother

F

W

81

Wd

12

10

MO

KY

KY

Eng

own Income

Y

Y

Y

Dunham Deliah

Sister

F

W

63

Wd

MO

MO

OH

Eng

own Income

Y

Y

Y

Denslow Stella

Niece

F

W

18

S

MO

IN

MO

Eng

None

N

0

Y

Y

Y

Maggie (SPICKARD) HUTTON is Delilah's half-sister.

7.  B.F. Hoover et al.  1964.  Groff (Groeff) Cemetery, Mercer County, MO (online at the Mercer County MOGenWeb site):
Warning:  these are not the original tombstone readings; the online readings have been heavily annotated from unknown sources, so caveat emptor.
I wish someone would post the actual, verbatim readings!  Research Basics 101:  never alter primary records!

DUNHAM	Delilah 'Lottie' (ERVIN)	16 Aug 1847	04 Sep 1913	w/o Luther S. DUNHAM
DUNHAM	Infant			d/o of Luther S. & Delilah (ERVIN) DUNHAM.
DUNHAM	Luther S.		08 Jun 1895	50y 8m; h/o Delilah (ERVIN). G.A.R. Civil War. suicide.

8.  U.S. Dept. of the Interior, Bureau of Land Management. The Official Land Patent Records Office.

Date	Cert. No.	Land Office	Patented By	Acres	Aliquot Sec.Twp.Rng	Meridian	State	County*
5 Apr 1878	300	Traverse City, MI	Luther S. Dunham	160	SE¼ S4.T33N.R4W	Michigan- Toledo Strip	MI	Charlevoix
*The county is not given on the original certificate, which describes the location of the land solely in terms of Aliquot, Section, Township, and Range.  The county names must have been added to the database at some later time, probably when the certificate data were computerized.

9.  Civil War Pension Index (index and images online at Ancestry.com):

Name of Soldier	Dunham, Luther S.
Name of Dependent	Widow	Dunham, Delilah
	Minor
Service	I. 20 Ind - Inf.
Date of Filing	Claim	Application No.	Certificate No.	State from which Filed
1865 July 21	Invalid	78903	116007
1895 July 15	Widow	617545	458065	Mo.
	Minor

10.  John C. Spickard.  [1987.]  "Bible Records:  Family Bible of Roy & Maude Spickard." Grundy Gleanings (Grundy County Genealogical Society, Trenton, MO) 3(3): 4.  Family bible of George Alexander SPICKARD & Mary Ann THOMPSON. 

11.  John C. Spickard.  1990.  "Delilah Ervin Dunham." Grundy Gleanings (Grundy County Genealogical Society, Trenton, MO) 6(4): 1+3. Biographical sketch, with image of Delilah.